SOCIOLOGY 330

SOCIOLOGY OF DEATH & GRIEF

 

NOTES - SUICIDE TAPE

I. Hypothetical Suicidal Person

socio-cultural variables (age, sex, state, county, pol-econ.)

unrealistic "love" in value system

achievement (high role expectations)

family (importance of mother)

decline of self-worth; self criticism; guilt ridden

behavior which goes unrewarded, while all behavior is seen as failure; guilt (never good enough); self-destruction

Anglo-Saxon notion of achievement

identify deprivation (intra and inter-personal development)

inflexibility in behavior

attempt vs. accomplished suicide (l/50-l00 ratio)

 

II. Identity Theories (and their relation to suicide)

threaten leads to attempt leads to suicide (is a "career")

Symbolic Interaction - all reference point to "others"

ego-psychologist also tell us of the importance of "others" in the development of

identity formation. (seen in theories of Baldwin, Mead, Goffman, Cooley, etc.)

conduct is not "I" but response to acts

Lichenstein's work stresses importance of mother in interpersonal development and in

family interaction and creates identity theme

Goffman work stresses notion of "stigma" as part of identity formation; one's spoiled

"identity" is "stigma" and person is reduced to discredited person (person

requires significant others)

Erikson's eight stages of identification are individual and social, complimentary role

integration and synthesis in group:

l) trust vs. mistrust (0-l years of age)

2) autonomy vs shame and doubt (2)

3) initiative and guilt (4 years)

4) industry vs. inferiority (6-ll)

5) identity and identify confusion

6) intimacy vs. isolation (young adult)

7) generality vs stagnation (adulthood)

8) integrity vs. despair/disgust

negative identity embraces opposition of ego ideal that society places on

individual (role expectations)

 

III. Childhood/Adolescent Suicide

interpersonal vs. intra personal (more common in older person)

male and female differences (although suicide is higher among males, and the use of

firearms

affiliated with feelings of shame; guilt; despair; loneliness; blame of love object; self-

failure; lacking confidence and seeing expectations far beyond what one can

accomplish; female suicide often linked to abandonment by family and/or lover;

shy, lonely, never achieve; inflexible; poor self image

identity less existent in children since identity hasn't formed

700-800 suicides annually are in this category

inter-personal involving "others"

middle of identity confusion and receive little satisfactions; feels inferior; insecure;

mistrustful of others; detachment

female syndrome is to feel abandoned by lover

has few friends and is shy

desperate reaction to never being able to achieve

inflexible

 

IV. Middle Age

interpersonal - marital partner is involved

rejection by symbiotic partner

male involves problems involves and work; while female involves being abandoned by

lover

male in this age gambles with death

three conditions necessary: suicidal person; available methods; and unavailability of

counselor or intervention/preventive circumstances

 

V. Age and Suicide

to alleviate pain and emotion; more lethal in adults than in young

change in life situation which is unacceptable to the person;

change occurs in identity; loss of friends and network, job, home, health; bonds

of integration are gone

society has degrading attitude toward the aged; routinization and detachment are

are existent in nursing homes and other institutions for the sick and elderly

nursing homes are examples of identity deprivation ("demoralization process and

career") therefore identity, sense of integrity is lost, meaninglessness; meaningful

sources of identity and significant others are taken away

 

VI. Identity Reformation

brainwashing is technique which creates discomfort with existing environment

identity deprivation is withdrawing from lifelong interpersonal relationships with others